1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
2. Memorise your favourite poem.
3. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
4. When you say, "I love you," mean it.
5. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye.
6. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
7. Believe in love at first sight.
8. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.
9. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.
10. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
11. Don't judge people by their relatives.
12. Talk slowly but think quickly.
13. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"
14. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
15. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.
16. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
17. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; Responsibility for all your actions.
18. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
19. When you realise you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
20. Smile when picking up the telephone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
21. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
22. Spend some time alone.
23. Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.
24. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
25. Read more books and watch less TV.
26. Live a good, honourable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll get to enjoy it a second time.
27. Trust in God but lock your car.
28. A loving atmosphere in your home is so important. Do all you can to create a tranquil harmonious home.
29. In disagreements with loved ones, deal with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.
30. Read between the lines.
31. Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality.
32. Be gentle with the earth.
33. Pray. There's immeasurable power in it.
34. Never interrupt when you are being flattered.
35. Mind your own business.
36. Don't trust a man/woman who doesn't close his/her eyes when you kiss.
37. Once a year, go someplace you've never been before.
38. If you make a lot of money, put it to use helping others while you are living. That is wealth's greatest satisfaction.
39. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of luck.
40. Learn the rules then break some.
41. Remember that the best relationship is one where your love for each other is greater than your need for each other.
42. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
43. Remember that your character is your destiny.
44. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.

I've been thinking,
people always think that others are affecting them,
but they don't seem to be able to see it from the other point of view.
They don't see that they affect others too.
Why are people so selfish?
- Because they're too spoilt and sheltered.

Why, do people think that it's always the other person's fault but never theirs?
Annoying isn't it?
It takes two hands to clap.
In a conflict, no one is totally right or wrong, because it takes two mistakes to cause a rift.
Why do they always make things sound like they're entirely right and the whole world should believe them?
- Because they're too proud to admit their mistakes. Blinded by pride.

Why is it that the world is full of smart alecks.
Who think that they have the right to judge what others do and decide if it's right or wrong, cool or uncool.
Here's the thing, different people have different views of what's right and what's wrong and what's cool or uncool.
If someone's doing something that you're uncomfortable with, so be it.
Understand that one man's meat is another man's poison.
But yet again,
why are people like that?
- Because they are immature. They think they've seen the world. FYI,the world's so huge, you'll never be able to see every single thing even if you lived to a hundred.

Enough of the whys, let's try the hard core facts.

1. People have pride, yes, that I understand, but there's a limit to everything. Too much pride means proud. Got it?
2. Sheltered and spoilt, understood. No choice, but the world doesn't revolve around you. I'm sure you should've realised that by now?
3. Immature, ok,accepted. But please don't make it so obvious that you are? Cause it really is showing.
4. Yeh, the world's big, I'm not saying I've seen everything. I admit that. I don't act like I know everything. You do. See the diff?
5. Ok,so you're unhappy with what someone does. You bitch,yeh,you're angry,yeh. But the world's full of different people. What can you do. Live with it,dude. Everyone seems to be coping fine, why not try learning to do that?
6. So the other party's at fault too, so are you. Any reason to criticise them? I think not. Cause when both parties are at fault, they don't have anything over each other. As humans we're all at the same level. Only God has the power to judge us. From what you're doing,you seem like you are.
7. Denial. It's obvious.
8. Shunning responsibility. Even more obvious.
9. Cow in a ward. I guess if you think you're all that great this should be a piece of cake.
10. Yes, I'm unhappy.

 Note : I have not written nor mentioned any particular person's name here and I do have my own circle of friends. So even if you are in my circle of friends, and think that I am referring to you, stop your wild guesses. Cause isn't it obvious enough. I'm not telling who. So please stop guessing who. And I know there will be some of you out there who will think that I'm referring to you. But no one can read my mind, not even my bestfr, so stop it. Read it if you like, ignore if you please. This is my blog, I'll write whatever I wish. Cause a blog is where someone can express him or herself freely. Remember what I said. Only God is authoritized to judge.

Thank you for your kind attention.
This has been absolutely sapping of my energy, though there is no need to waste so much time and energy, but people still need an avenue to vent their feelings I guess. Everyone does that right?
Farewell,folks (:

I'm finally posting again.
Anyway, today was quite fun (:
Overslept and met Eunice at Cheong Chin Nam and we were both late.
Hehe.
Ate and talked quite a fair bit before she left for holland and I,for tanjong.
Met cy at tanjong. Haha,she gave me awfully chocolate cake! (:
Thankssssssss,it was very nice :D
Haha, did a li'l bit of work only. Much of the time was spent talking and all. Hehe (:
Finally went home at around 7plus.
Attempted to study, but failed.
My poor brain cells can't take it alr, idk what I did,maybe they're dying from radiation D:
haha, anyway,
I miss you.
Alotalotalot.
But, I will concentrate on my work too.
You should too.
And relax (:
byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Myes officially start next week. I don't really feel the intensity and THAT pressure to push myself all the way yet.
Sigh, this feeling sucks. Everyday is just bout studying and the lack of sleep isn't really helping. Including the monthly moodswings I have. Suckz. Rawr. Ah well.
Today was, alright I guess.
Eunice the bloat-able!
Hahaha,she says she's easily bloated.
SIgh, did some rather productive notes with her after school today?
Yeah,then went home in the molesting bus. As sweaty calls it :D
Kinda slacked and did ss till now.
Bestfr called (:
Miss talking to her so badly.
Sigh, I miss some other people too ):
Gah.
Bye.

Today really made me think a whole lot, reflect time and again. I guess, it just made me more confident, more self reliant and emotionally independent. Starting out, it needed a lot of time to get used to it. Soon enough, I got used to it and was able to relax. The awesome-ness of reflection. I need to maintain this level of steady-ness.
Lit after IFD was fun. Cause teacher didn't come, so I decided to write Tiff a letter (: I miss her so much. Sigh, no one to be lame with me and laugh like mad till I get yelled at by my sis. Haha,sigh, stupid O's ):
Eng was superduper funny. We had to do a 10-frame comic strip on NE message. So we wrote out the comic strip storyline. The story's main characters were PEARL and HARBOUR. hahahahaha,omg,super funny! There was this frame which just said 'Pearl died, Harbour cried'. Sathya wrote that Pearl died cause Pearl was teasing her. Hahahaha,she was making fun of how Sathya laughed and blinked/winked, talked, everything lah! She literally analyses all of Sathya's facial features I tell you. HAHAHAHA,damn funny. Laugh until my stomach muscles damn pain lah D:
Emath was alright, but I was like dozing off during the last 30mins or so. Then class time then assembly. I tried sleeping during assembly but failed. The music was too noisy and annoying. Gah, then adamkhoo nonsense. Today was better than the 3day camp during January. Wayyyyyyyyyyy better. Bussed home with Dash and Yusra. Omg, the two of them are HILARIOUS. HAHAHAHAHA,tsk,Dash ah,your other half ah ... Hahahaha :P
Managed to finish most of poa just now and did like 2 math questions and finished up my geog notes (: Gotta revise chem now!
Bye,people!
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